Pen or mouth

sometimes deciding on the way and manner I want express myself is a bit challenging.

Should I use my pen and skilfully place my thoughts onto paper so that I may come back one day to reflect on them.

or should I use my mouth and voice my thoughts for people to hear…and possibly relate.

pen or mouth?

should I use my pen as a vessel through which my emotions can flow from heart to page and no one hears them.

or should I use my mouth to express my feelings since no one could see them

pen or mouth?

If I write my thoughts down no one would know what I’m thinking, no one would relate

but If I say what I’m thinking people might disagree, possibly flee

if I pour my feelings down onto paper, people won’t know what I’m feeling

but if I voice my feelings , people might reject them…

pen or mouth?

I should decide…

 

maybe my thoughts should just stay in my mind

and my feelings should just stay in my heart

because I still can’t decide

pen or mouth…

or is there another way?

 

 

 

Be proud of yourself first, before anyone else becomes proud of you (don’t rely on people)

HEY THERE SOCIETY!

Relying on people for your value is a shortcut to unhappiness (in my opinion). I know of many people who live by people’s compliments about them, praise, flattery and all that(me too at times). There is nothing wrong with people liking you or something about you or what you do, but, if you find yourself sad or disappointed because someone did not compliment you or flatter you then it means you are depending on people for your worth. what do I mean?

Well  if someone doesn’t compliment you about your beauty and you start feeling ugly just because they didn’t compliment you, then it means that you were depending on that person for your beauty. do you get what I’m saying?

If you depend on people’s reactions to determine whether or not you are beautiful, handsome, sufficient, worthy then you are depending on people for your value.

Tell yourself everyday that you are handsome, beautiful. If you do something well be proud of yourself first before anyone else becomes proud of you.

Don’t put your worth in people’s hands, people are flawed, put your worth in god almighty and trust me in him you are so worthy and so valuable!

😉